Duendesday — the teen shift

We think because she’s already such an empathetic and sweet gal, this ‘teen shift thing’ will not be as painful as it is for some. It’s not great, mind you — she’s still testing boundaries and throwing a little shade but it’s very performative and feels very shallow; we don’t expect it to stick around.Continue reading “Duendesday — the teen shift”

Super Special Birthday Celebration

Our amazing and hilarious child is now 14 years old! A glorious end to her second cycle and a smashing start to the third. This Duende is fiery, smart, and creative. She’s empathetic and compassionate. She has a great sense of self and she’s not afraid to show it. And she’s very excited to tryContinue reading “Super Special Birthday Celebration”

Duendesday: Movin’ on Up

{life with a curious and crazy almost 14 yr old} It’s officially official — she passed her 8th Grade Assessment and was recommended for Honors classes when she chooses her High School Classes…she’s officially also been accepted to the Maine Arts Academy!! Onward ho! She’s excited. And if she’s excited, we’re excited. Celebratory ice creamContinue reading “Duendesday: Movin’ on Up”

Duendesday: Change In Action

{life with a curious and crazy almost 14 yr old} She dances, she runs, she sews, she reads, she crafts, she whines, she makes messes, she leaves dirty dishes everywhere…she’s 13. It’s all good, even when it’s crazy-making. Our Duende is a lovely person; she’s freaking funny as heck, creative and smart, confident and assertive,Continue reading “Duendesday: Change In Action”

Duendesday: Island of Bloo

{life with a curious and crazy 13 yr old} It must be amazing to be a (slightly) middle class white kid in (relative) suburbia…J & I talk about the magick of ‘no’. As if we could have ever told our parents ‘no’ without serious traumatic repercussions. Or just willy-nilly fed ourselves, or took 3-hour baths,Continue reading “Duendesday: Island of Bloo”